In the first year of marriage newlyweds can’t keep their hands off of each other. After many years of marriage many couples are fighting to get that fire back. Are you tired of newlyweds with their subtle bragging of how great things are? Do you have children and feel they’ve taken the life out of you? I have some tips that I believe can be useful to lighting that flame again. After 12 years of marriage my husband and I made a valid promise to always keep things the way they were from the first time we laid eyes on each other.
First tip make a vow to maintain that first year of marriage love, lust, emotion, and happiness. Of course with children it can be hard. I have four, but I make the time for my marriage.
If you do have children involve them. Dad’s have them sign or decorate a card you wish to give to your wife just to say you love her. Wives if you have small children have them walk on daddy’s back. Maybe’s he’s been complaining of that sore back and hinting for that massage, but you’re just busy.
Holding hands is a must. You use to cuddle where ever you went together. So why did you stop? Don’t fall under the pitfall of things just change.
Men pat your wives bottom, just a love tap, when you’re out and about. Show her she still has that best butt ever. Women dress up once in a while, get out of those frumpy clothes. Just because you’re a stay at home doesn’t mean you have to be in sweats all day. Pull your hair in a nice ponytail. Put on cute, but comfortable bottoms, and maybe just a little gloss.
Try to have date night. I know that can be virtually impossible. Make the time! How many times have you and your spouse found yourselves just sitting alone? Well pop in a movie or have a glass of wine and go over old times.
Last but not least. Please remember why you chose your spouse and do your best to keep true to that!
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